Breastmilk is by far the best source of nutrition for infants; however, exclusive breastfeeding is not possible for all mothers. You can continue to feed your child breastmilk even though you may spend some time apart if you use a quality breast pump to express milk for his or her feedings. To begin finding the right breast pump you’ll need to answer a couple of questions. Why do you need a breast pump? How often will you need to express milk for your baby? Read the rest of this entry »

Most of us dream about having a newborn baby, and then when we do have one, we can’t dream due to not getting to sleep because of the constant crying of our infant.

Most likely, if your baby is crying constantly, he or she is suffering from colic.  This is very common in newborn babies from the age of two weeks up to the age of four months.  So, what can you possibly do to get a good night’s sleep some time within those four months, if your baby has colic?  Good question!

One way to help you and your baby get some much needed relief is by using the rocking and motion technique to alleviate the colic.  This has been proven to be a very effective way to help with colic. It’s best to hold the baby on his or her side when rocking him or her as this technique can really help in keeping your baby calm.  However, be certain to always support your baby’s head and neck when rocking him or her.

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It can still be somewhat daunting to establish a sense of structure after the carefree months of summer. As difficult as it for adults to shift from enjoying vacation time to being stuck in an office all day, it is even harder for kids to transition from the playground and the swimming pool to the classroom. Children—whether pre-school age or older—work best with a routine in place and may have trouble when there is significant change; plan a schedule that your family can use to make each day easier.

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Imagine if someone with authority said to you that you could not use corporal punishment to discipline your children. How would you handle it? Would it cause dramatic changes in the way you discipline your kids? Would you go into a panic? Would you give up disciplining all together?

Numerous studies have revealed that if we were raised with corporal punishment we will most likely raise our children the same way. What we know about being parents generally comes from the parents that raised us.

Some of you may be asking at this point, so what’s really wrong with a swat on the bottom? It’s fast, effective and has nothing to do with child abuse. However, very few people can say with confidence that they have never hit their kids just a little harder than they intended. It’s possible for well intentioned loving parents to get angry enough with their children to use spanking as a means of releasing their own anger. Although these parents are well aware that the purpose of discipline is to teach, when corporal punishment is used, the danger of using and abusing children is greater.

Most parents will agree that children learn a great deal through imitation, especially when they see their children dress up in their clothes, repeat familiar phrases or even pantomime cigarette smoking. When mom or dad spanks little Tommy they are using hitting as a form of communication. They are in fact teaching him through imitation to communicate with his hands (hitting) instead of with words.

When our children see us become so angry with them that we strike them, we not only lose sight of why we are disciplining them, but we show them that it is an appropriate way to deal with anger.

So where does that leave our imaginary situation where corporal punishment is not permitted? In order to teach our children right from wrong we know that discipline has an important place in rearing a child. The following case studies offer alternatives for parents who would like to, or are considering dropping corporal punishment from their lives.

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Nursing siblings who are not twins is called “tandem nursing”. In our culture, this concept is unusual, although other in many other cultures it is a common practice.
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No matter how much they may deny it, children prefer to have structure and rules in their lives. It gives them a sense of security to know that there are limits placed on them. Children of all ages can find the world chaotic and arbitrary, rules define the boundaries that they must not overstep without consequences. This, in turn, prevents them from muddling through situations that they may not have the maturity to handle. Read the rest of this entry »

For parents choosing their first sandbox or other outdoor play equipment can be a challenging task with many options and materials available and a huge variation in prices. A sandbox (or sandpit- in some parts of the world!) can be an enduring piece of outdoor play equipment that can see your kids from their toddler years right up to the age of 7 or 8.
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Potty training is the source of much anticipation and frustration in parents. No two children are alike, so it is imperative that you familiarize yourself with a variety of methods. Use these 10 Tips on Potty Training to help your little one succeed in getting out of diapers.
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The term “toddler” is generally used for babies between the ages of twelve months and twenty-four months. During this age, a child’s main interest is usually himself. Lots of plastic mirrors and a full-length mirror at his or her eye level are perfect at this time. Toddlers may not share toys easily as they consider their toys to be most valuable possessions. Expose your toddler to other children to help him or her learn the skill of “sharing.”
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When you hire a babysitter to watch your baby or toddler it is a good idea to provide a checklist. Keep your checklist in a location easily accessible to your babysitter. A good place might to hang it on the refrigerator or a bulletin board. In this article learn what kind of information you should leave for your babysitter.
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